Hopefully

Things change, to state the obvious. Some changes are not obvious, however. They happen outside of our visual range, we’re not kept in the loop, or there is no “loop” mechanism. When we discover a change, it’s sometimes startling.

In 2008, one such change caught up with me. It was during a discussion about punctuation and a co-worker mentioned that the standard was to use one space after the end of sentence, not the two spaces that I learned way back when. (I still remember that IBM Selectric in my typing class.)

IBM Selectric typewriter

IBM Selectric

Really? One space and not two? The change was one surprise, the idea that the change had been in effect for several years without me knowing was another surprise. How does one find out these things?

One way is to keep up with writing guides, which I hadn’t been doing. It never occurred to me that punctuation might change. Now I know.

And now I have a copy of the Associated Press Stylebook; one copy at the office, one at home.

Associated Press 2012 Stylebook

Associated Press 2012 Stylebook

With this in hand, I was aware — in a timely manner — of another change: Hopefully.

In 2008, the year of my first AP Stylebook, this is the entry for hopefully: “It means in a hopeful manner. Do not use it to mean it is hoped, let us hope or we hope. Right: It is hoped that we will complete our work in June. Right: We hope that we will complete or work in June. Wrong as a way to express the thought in the previous two sentences: Hopefully, we will complete our work in June.”

In 2012, the Associated Press changed their entry and accepts hopefully in its current, popular usage. Their new entry: “The traditional meaning is in a hopeful manner. Also acceptable is the modern usage: it’s hoped, we hope. Correct: “You’re leaving soon?” she asked hopefully. Correct: “Hopefully, we will be home before dark.”

I knew that the hopefully usage was hotly debated among grammarians. Some accepted the modern usage, others railed against it. Any time I used hopefully verbally, I felt guilty. I was careful in my writing not to use it in the “I hope” manner.

Its usage is still debated, but the tide has turned towards accepting its modern usage. There’s no going back. Now you and I can breathe easy when we use it.

So here’s my wish for the new year, 2013. Hopefully, the changes we will see will be for the better. A lot of good things happen every year, a lot of bad things happen every year. I am hopeful that the good will outweigh the bad.

and Romance

I read a lot. For quite a while, I mostly read non-fiction. Books like Innumeracy: Mathematical Illiteracy and its Consequences by John Allen Paulos, The Groucho Letters: Letters From and To Groucho Marx, Wait Till Next Year by Doris Kearns Goodwin and Creative is a Verb by Patti Digh. And lots of craft and sewing books like Freestyle Machine Embroidery: Techniques and Inspiration for Fiber Art by Carol Shinn.

Then hubby gave me a Kindle. I found a Facebook page, eBook Impresario, that highlights Kindle books. Sometimes the eBooks are free for a limited time, which is nice. One thing I appreciate about those postings is that the book’s category is identified. That helps me a lot in choosing which eBooks to consider.

I conducted a personal, non-scientific survey over the last two weeks about the types of books eBook Impresario highlighted. I counted 39 categories, 11 of which were some kind of romance. Now romance stories are what I try to stay away from. Nothing wrong with people taking an interest in one another in any story, but there’s only so much of “looking into her/his eyes and getting lost forever” that I can take. In fact, I reached that limit in the first book that included that situation. If “romance” is in any book’s category, I let it slide right on by.

That works most of the time. But every once in a while, I get ambushed. One of the eBooks I downloaded was a mystery showcasing a sleuth who was a 72-year-old gun-toting, dope-smoking, hard-drinking, hair-pulling, Mustang-driving woman. It was a mystery . . . and a romance. Turns out the sleuth’s former employer showed up and the sparks from oh-so-long ago rekindled.

The next book I downloaded was a thriller. It included biological warfare, espionage, ex-military men galore (macho off the charts), the latest warfare technology (shh, it’s a secret) and deadly below-freezing temperatures in the wilds of Alaska . . . and romance. Seriously? Seriously.

Looks like I’m going to have to go back to reading non-fiction. In my to-read book pile: Wicked Bugs: The Louse that Conquered Napoleon’s Army & Other Diabolical Insects by Amy Stewart and Dog Detectives: Train Your Dog to Find Lost Pets by Kat Albrecht. If romance sneaks its way into these books, someone’s in big trouble!

Or, maybe I should reconsider and take the age-old advice of “If you can’t beat ’em, join ’em!” Maybe I should write a romance. Nah!

Here’s the category list from eBook Impresario where the category name included “romance” with the number of times the category showed up in my review time. If you like to read romance stories, you’re in luck!

Christian Historical Romance (1)
Christian Romance (2)
Historical Romance (11)
Historical Romantic Suspense (1)
Paranormal Romance (24)
Paranormal Romantic Comedy (1)
Romance (27)
Romantic Suspense (19)
Romantic Comedy (3)
Romantic Thriller (1)
Time Travel Romance (5)

The Willpower Instinct

book cover: Willpower Instinct

Willpower Instinct

 
I just received my copy of The Willpower Instinct: How Self-Control Works, Why It Matters, and What You Can Do To Get More of It by Kelly McGonigal, Ph.D.

I can hardly wait to start reading it, but first I’m going to finish off this bag of potato chips.